Manipulators...?

What do you do when some one call's your best friend, your "manipulator"?
Some times I wonder why people think that... does nobody think that there really can be good friendships these days?


I looked up "manipulator" on dictionay.com.. and this is what i found...

How to spot a manipulator:

It is difficult to spot manipulators, because they are so good at what they do. And it can be hard to identify and resist manipulative behaviors in your children, parents, coworkers, friends or lovers. However, once you recognize the behavior, you can learn to respond in ways that break the manipulation cycle.


Step 1:
Explore your feelings. Think about how you feel after spending time with the people in your life. Perhaps dealing with someone close to you regularly leaves you feeling exhausted, depressed, fearful, lonely, guilty or worthless. If so, chances are that you have spotted a manipulator.
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okay, first of all... who really sits and attempts to figure out what their feelings are when their around that person..?? that just seems weird to me...
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Step 2:
Notice how the person acts when you change the way you respond to the manipulative behavior. Argue back, with logic. Do not humor the manipulator. Take your time answering and responding. Don't take the bait. Be alert and prepared for changes in tactics, since the manipulator is highly invested in control and will try different strategies.
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hmm... I think i can manage arguing back... but still.. who does this?
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Stupid. Stupid. Stupid.
Thats all I have to say.